“I’ve been on a soapbox for months now about the harm that our overheated talk is doing to us. Yes it mobilizes supporters—but by mobilizing them with hysterical accusations and pseudo-information, overheated talk has made it impossible for representatives to represent and elected leaders to lead.”
~ David Frum, “Waterloo,” 3/21/2010 Frumforum.com (referenced in 3/2017 The Atlantic)
Mr. Frum was writing in 2010, though the insight about “the harm of overheated talk” is always timely.
He also noted the very personal, ego-centric agendas of those stirring up the frenzy by way of purposely inflammatory ‘talk’, and that this created an environment that “trapped” those leaders who otherwise preferred collaboration and compromise yet were pulled along in the toxic current that ran counter to their own wisdom and better judgment.
In a ‘fiery’ climate, we see and hear a lot of ‘inflammatory’ and ‘overheated’ talk; it’s helpful to be aware of the toxic tactics that seek to provoke, inflame, and stir frenzy (which tends to decrease the capacity for thoughtfulness, consideration, empathy, personal agency, constructive response, etc.).
What’s more, there’s growing research about the ill-effects of the constant barrage of Narci-Bully spewing and manipulations on those regularly immersed in it. (More on that in an upcoming post.)
If it calls to you, have a look at the full articles (both linked above) for the rest of that conversation.
Big Love,
March 26, 2017 at 10:42 pm
Reblogged this on Laura Bruno's Blog and commented:
In recent walks around town and in sessions, I’ve had similar conversations, as people share how difficult they find it to remain balanced and joyful as the overheated world burns through them. Jamie links to some good refresher tips, and I would add that anytime chaos begins to erupt, you’ll have far more influence than usual if you can identify, summon, pursue and amplify those things you DO want.
You don’t need to know the entire picture. As Gurumukh said, “We must start somewhere because if we don’t start somewhere, we’ll be nowhere. Start wherever you are.” Don’t be afraid to make mistakes while living a more authentic life. In times of chaos, “mistakes” create springboards for those present and centered enough to recognize opportunities swirling around them. Observe and then poise yourself to spring into action when something whispers clearly to your heart and soul.
March 27, 2017 at 2:59 pm
Beautiful, Laura. This is truly one of those ever-ripening, ever-expanded, conversations (inside and out!). Thanks for sharing this musing with your circle, and for your beautiful comments as well. xo Lots of Love, Jamie
March 28, 2017 at 2:24 am
You’re welcome, Jamie, and I agree. It’s a perennial topic that keeps growing and expanding every time. Lots of love to you, and thanks for continuing with this and similar topics — so important! xoxo Laura
March 27, 2017 at 2:52 pm
Reblogged this on Illuminations Now!!.
March 27, 2017 at 2:59 pm
Many thanks, Mimi, for rippling this out into your circle. Blessings, Jamie
March 27, 2017 at 11:46 pm
Way too much overheated talk these days. That’s why I have been on a social media sabbatical 😉
March 28, 2017 at 7:26 pm
Lots of Hot air blowing recently and agree about it being toxic
March 27, 2017 at 2:59 pm
Many thanks for the reblog, and sharing this with your readers, Thomas!