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“I took the other road, all right, but only because it was the easy road for me, the way I wanted to go.
If I’ve encountered some unnecessary resistance that’s because most of the traffic is going the other way.” ~ Edward Abbey
It’s been one of those weeks when the Muse is busily gestating some gathering of insights, not yet ready to be sent forth in any cogent stream of words.
So for now, since it’s Father’s Day here in the U.S. and the Summer Solstice in the Northern Hemisphere as well, I’ll share these wee bits of perspective from Edward Abbey, the American iconoclast, writer, and ardent and loyal knight in service to Mother Nature.
These quotes from Abbey remind me of my own father, who was in his own way an iconoclast more comfortable in his painting studio, or in a chair by the fire with a history book on a favorite era, or out wandering in Nature, or fixing something in a seemingly (to us) miraculous and MacGyver-esque way, than he was in the ‘normal’ containers defined by the culture in which he lived.
My father did, in fact, take the other road, as Abbey says, and I do admire and deeply respect that about him (and anyone else who ‘hazards the fierce edges of life’ as the poet David Whyte says!). There’s an integrity to it, and that continues to be an inspiration and encouragement to me.
When he was still alive, we celebrated his birthday just after Father’s Day and the Solstice (June 23rd). So happy birthday and Father’s Day, Dad! (And yes, Dad, my feet are on the ground!)
“Each thing in its way, when true to its own character, is equally beautiful.” ~ Edward Abbey

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Whatever you’ve helped father into existence from the authentic core of your own being — whether children or art or writings or a house you built or some bit of Nature or the sacred that you’ve stood as worthy knight in protection of, or some lesser-traveled road you’ve courageously taken — let’s take a moment and honor that expression of what my Qigong grandmaster called ‘healthy Yang’ creation, or Sacred Masculine.
“We are who we protect, I think, who we stand up for.” ~ Sophie in The DaVinci Code
Wherever you are in the world, may this Solstice bring blessing, generosity, joy, heartfulness, honor, and insight — Fire element and healthy Yang qualities one and all.
And as we stand for a moment in the balance of Light and Darkness, may we resolve to stand for and bless and celebrate into ‘normalcy’ those very healthy Yang or Sacred Masculine qualities in these transformative times.
Big Love,
June 21, 2015 at 5:07 pm
Thanks for sharing these thoughts Jamie – I never think of myself as ‘fathering’ something into the world – so much so that this brought me up short – something that will make me think. Thank you.
June 21, 2015 at 8:10 pm
You’re welcome, Andrea, and thank you! What’s funny about the word ‘fathering’ is that it’s just what wrote through me, so it’s just as much of an ‘aha-reflection’ for me! Thanks for stopping by and sharing your musing. xoxo Jamie
June 21, 2015 at 6:58 pm
Hi Jamie and Happy Solstice! I had never heard the word fathering before and I like it. Now I must investigate its application. So glad you brought up the Divine Masculine because it truly matters. I am a feminist but not at the expense of what is beautiful about the masculine. In Spiritual circles, so much judgement still exists about proper philosophy and tools. I see this as another form of ego games.
Thank you for opening our eyes and hearts at thus auspicious time.
Love and light,
Linda
June 21, 2015 at 8:16 pm
Happy Solstice, Linda! Thanks so much for sharing your sense and thoughts of this. As I wrote in reply to Andrea’s comment, ‘fathering’ is just what ‘wrote through’ me, so it’s a seed for reflection for me as well.
True enough about the Divine or Sacred Masculine (or healthy, whole Yang as another tradition might word it). In some mythic stories, the restored Divine Feminine invites out (and is the pathway for) the expression of the Sacred Masculine. It takes one to birth the other, and one ‘over’ the other is imbalance (which we’ve seen more than enough of!).
To me it’s very Feminine to be in ‘and/both’ mind rather than ‘either/or’, so Sacred Feminine AND Sacred Masculine in heartful, devoted, mutually honoring celebration, invitation, and co-creation. So beautiful! May it be so. 🙂
Lots of love,
Jamie
June 21, 2015 at 7:59 pm
So much love… Happy solstice to you… and much light and love to surround you always… Barbara
June 22, 2015 at 3:35 pm
Thanks so much for this post, Jamie, and for the glimpse into your own father. Finding ways of celebrating the Sacred Masculine also reminds me of Sidra Stone’s book “The Shadow King,” part of which explores all the ways in which women (and even men) have internalized the Inner Patriarch in a negative way. For me, though, one favorite part of her profoundly insightful book is the part that recongizes the Good Father — the role of a healthy, balanced Inner Patriarch and how cultivating that can really open doors to success, discipline, protection, good boundaries, security, and that special kind of love that only a father can provide. Thoughts worth pondering! Thank for the reflection.
Love and blessings,
Laura
June 23, 2015 at 4:03 pm
Thank you for reblogging the musing to share with your circle, Laura, and for mentioning Sidra Stone’s book – sounds like a valuable and important perspective. Love and blessings to you! Jamie
June 22, 2015 at 3:44 pm
Reblogged this on Laura Bruno's Blog and commented:
I’ve tried to reblog this several times now. Let’s see if this one goes through with my apologies to all the dad’s out there for not being able to post it sooner! Happy (Belated) Father’s Day. I’ll also share a comment I left on Jamie’s original post, as it offers relevance for so many people:
Thanks so much for this post, Jamie, and for the glimpse into your own father. Finding ways of celebrating the Sacred Masculine also reminds me of Sidra Stone’s book “The Shadow King,” part of which explores all the ways in which women (and even men) have internalized the Inner Patriarch in a negative way. For me, though, one favorite part of her profoundly insightful book is the part that recongizes the Good Father — the role of a healthy, balanced Inner Patriarch and how cultivating that can really open doors to success, discipline, protection, good boundaries, security, and that special kind of love that only a father can provide. Thoughts worth pondering! Thanks for the reflection.
Love and blessings,
Laura
June 23, 2015 at 4:04 pm
The reblog worked! That does seem to happen sometimes. 🙂 Thanks again for sharing the post and your comment, Laura. Love, Jamie
June 22, 2015 at 7:29 pm
Lovely to read about your dad. And thanks for mentioning Ed Abbey — his writings are an old friend I hadn’t thought of in some time.
I inherited my MacGyvering skills from my grandpa. 🙂
Father’s day, dad’s birthday and summer solstice all in one — what a powerful trine to honor the sacred masculine. I love it.
xxo Dayna
June 23, 2015 at 4:07 pm
Thanks, Dayna. I’m glad you enjoyed it, and the reminder of Ed Abbey, too. (Which reminds me of another of my father’s favorites, from Young Frankenstein … ‘Abby Normal’!).
It’s very handy to have inherited some MacGyvering skills, isn’t it? Never know when they’ll be just the thing.
Definitely a powerful trine to honor the Sacred Masculine, and since Summer Solstice has the Sun just into Cancerian Waters, the Divine Feminine is right there, too. Beautiful.
xoxo Love,
Jamie
June 22, 2015 at 11:47 pm
Beautiful post. It reminds me of the stark contrast between flowery, happy Mothers’ Day sermons and homilies in church, and the sad, wistful, “lost” and “missing” energy about the Father’s Day sermons and homilies one month later. Clearly something was (and is) missing, wounded, and absent because very few eyes were dry in that worship space, but for vastly different reasons than for Mother’s Day.
June 23, 2015 at 4:08 pm
Thank you, Kieron. And you know, that’s an interesting observation you share. When I read your comment, I thought of the very same being the case in recent sermons/homilies in the church I attended. Very interesting, indeed. Why do you think that is?
Thank you for visiting and sharing the insight! Blessings, Jamie
June 24, 2015 at 5:46 am
Normalcy would be nice. Here in the southern hemisphere, we just had our winter solstice. A reflection of the balance between light and darkness. 😀
June 26, 2015 at 10:02 pm
Happy Winter Solstice, Luciana! And thanks for stopping by. 🙂 xoxo Jamie
June 27, 2015 at 6:09 am
Strange start to winter, sunny days but cold!
Thanks Jamie 😀 xx
July 14, 2015 at 2:47 pm
Hi Jamie,
I loved reading your touching words about your father and the kind of man he was. I too, appreciate those who take the maverick’s path. I see he’s shared that wonderful quality with you. You’re a trailblazer!! An original, indeed. I’m glad you two were able to have those moments together.
Hugs, O and om 🐱